I had a wonderful conversation this morning with Jayne Weatherbe, a family and couples therapist (okay! she’s a sex therapist! I said it!). Aside from showing up in the most fantabulous, colorful jacket I’ve seen in ages, Jayne got right to my heart by telling me about her love of dance. We also talked about what I do, and Jayne shared of some of where she is at with her business. That’s HER business and I’m not telling tales out of school here, but as a result of where our conversation went, I found myself reflecting on something that I felt was worthy of a blog post. Here it is.
In my workshops, I teach people about strategic planning so they can use those skills themselves and build a stronger business (or non-profit). But sometimes you get to a place in your business where you’re not sure if you are still totally in love with it (maybe the same as marriage?). I just feel it’s important to tell you this: strategic planning will not make you fall back in love with your business. Similarly, if you are not sure whether the life of entrepreneurship is right for you, no amount of business planning, strategic planning, marketing, social media, yadda yadda etc. etc. will make your decision to go into business for yourself any easier. You’ve got to feel a drive for it.
You MUST have passion for what you want to do as a business. Don’t just do it for the money – do it for love, and the money will follow (or not – let’s be realistic – but at least if you’re doing it for love you can still respect yourself in the morning).
So what happens when you’ve got a business that used to give you the “shock tingles” and now leaves you somewhat “meh?” There are a few ways that I know of to deal with this situation:
1) Find something new about your business that draws your heart into it again. I used professional development and some personal soul-searching activities (yes, involving visuals) to help me through the transition I needed to make when I moved from Vancouver to Victoria, after I became a mom. Allowing yourself to renew your skills may refresh your passion for work, or give you some new flavours to work with. Learning graphic facilitation did it for me in December 2008, and since then I’ve invested in continual professional development because it keeps me falling in love with my work over and over again. I’m lucky like that.
2) Make an exit plan. Identify the value of your business, and ask whether it could be operated by somebody else. If you’ve been in business for a while, your client lists and reputation may be worth something – but you can’t just dump them on some poor unsuspecting buyer and flee. That’s not doing your clients or your buyer any good. Instead, make a short-term plan (6-12 months) for how you will get your business ready to be operated by a new owner, and do what needs to be done. Finding a buyer is challenging; I will not fool with you on that one. Business brokerage is not my line of work, alas, but there are professionals out there to help you!
3) Take a break – without a firm return date – and see if you can rediscover your passion after you’ve been away from the day-to-day crush for a while. It could be that you’re just burned out and need a rest. Some time away will help you see your business more clearly, and you may realize you need to make some changes to continue being happy.
Options 1 and 3 can probably be combined quite happily!
The bottom line is that there’s no point in being in business BY yourself – be in business FOR yourself. If you’re not in love with what you’re doing, take action. Life’s too short to stay shackled to something that doesn’t make you feel happy.


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Winning feels nice, AND it’s the people that count
Huzzah! Directis Consulting, this wee consulting firm I started in 2003, just won its first business award. (If you haven’t been following along, it’s the Outstanding Customer Service Award from the Greater Victoria Chamber of Commerce).
It’s been a great week all over, actually. Here’s some of the other great things that are happening:
The most exciting part of this week has definitely been the people I’ve been working and celebrating with. If the path to success is found in the people you meet along the way, then I definitely like the route I’m on! So to all the new acquaintances and old friends out there reading this, please let me say this: I’m so happy to be sharing this exciting time with you!
If there is any way I can help you in your own pursuit of happiness and success, don’t be shy. Tweet me, email me (sue at this domain name), or call me (250-479-8303)!